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Chastity is my idea of heaven

Sub Male (45) looking for Mistress Glastonbury, Connecticut, United States

I'm ISO of an in-shape domme in her 20s to early 40s to worship her, and serve her every need and want in a committed mistress-slave relationship. I desire to become her property. I want to live a chaste, obedient, submissive life according to my domme's rules and guidelines. I enjoy being told what to do, when and how to do them. Her happiness is my pleasure and joy. I want to look up to her and be in awe of her. I will treat her as my Goddess. I want to think how lucky I am to belong to her and get to serve her. I'm very attracted to confident, assertive, demanding, controlling women. Power and dominance is very attractive!

While submitting and serving you is extremely important, I am into BDSM and am looking for her to be into it too. Because I know your time if very valuable and I do not wish to waste it, please allow me to tell you what aspects of BDSM culture I like and OK with...

I am respectful, will show proper deportment, and honor my mistress at all times...addressing her correctly in a proper tone, bowing, kneeling, holding a position until she says to release, carrying out her wishes as soon as she says them, never give an attitude etc.

I enjoy the feeling of being collared. I believe in denial and chastity. I believe my dick is hers to own and control. I would love to be trained to only get erect and orgasm only when she tells me. I'm ok with a moderate amount of pain and torment...being spanked, whipped, caned, flogged, CBT, nipple and anal play. I'm very ok with all forms of bondage and restriction. I'm ok with being caged, crated, and abandoned. I have many fantasies that I'd like to explore as well, and I'm always open and willing to explore my domme's fantasies.

I'm NOT into sissification, extreme torture or pain, bloodletting, cutting, ball busting, & financial domination (but ok with tributes). If I forgot something, please ask and I will be prompt in answering you. Again, thank you for your time.

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CBT Preferences

I prefer:Depends on my partner, Make me cry
Things I enjoy:Slapping, Squeezing, Pinching, Weights/Parachutes, Stretching, Stroking
Toys I like to use:Ball stretcher, Parachute, Humbler, Testicle cuffs
Orgasm during play:Sometimes

Ball Busting preferences

How high is your threshold of pain?Fairly Low

Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Receiving
How much Strapon can you handle?Long and Thin, Average Sized, Hard and Fast

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:Rooftop pool
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:a racquetball court

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritagePolish
BuildAverage
Height183 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthBald
Best featureLips
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityYour Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$100,000 - $250,000

Looking For

I prefer:Good Looks, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSlave
I am seekingA mistress
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Branding, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Electro torture, Foot / shoe worship, Genital torture, Mummification, Physical humiliation, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Tickling games, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/M/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Strip clubs, Swapping parties, Regular Bars

Sexual Interests

Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I relish in regular discipline
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Supreme Goddess
I like to wear:High heels and a business suit, Lingerie and stockings, Corsets, Leather, PVC, Latex

Foot Fetish Preferences

My fetish role:Sub - Sucking toes & feet
Relationship:Private foot & toe play